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Insomnia is a real thing, I know that for sure now. Its 3.28 am and yes I am up again. So the diary is out ...

Did you know that insomnia is actually a condition that people see a psychiatrist for? Yes and you can get medication in the form of sleeping pills...Well let's hope it hasn't come to that.
What is on my mind this am? Naming things...

Almost everything that exists in the world has a name. A label, something that defines it. I have no idea why this is on my mind right now(or maybe I do), but I just know that it is and now that I have thought about it, I want to explore it. What does something without a name look like?
My guess is if you were a person and you had no name, it would be very difficult for people to get to know you. Your name is the first thing most people get to know in first encounters. So a nameless thing is actually a strange thing and it would confuse people trying to figure out what to call it.
I hate spending hours trying to define something. I like labels, I like naming things so I know what I am dealing with. Well in real life I realise though that this is not always as simple as it sounds. Take the dating scene for example, things that go undefined usually get confusing down the line right?

But I wonder, what difference does it make to name something? If something is working well and is not broken, what difference would labelling it make? Is it even a thing when you can't even tell people what it is because you don't know?
Well since I have time I came up with a number of things that can make a difference between a named thing and one that isn't :

-Naming something means ownership. When you give it a name you give it life, you claim it, it is yours...

-Once you claim something that means you feel secure in the knowledge that it is yours, so security is the other reason why things are or need to be defined/named for what they are...

-Security removes doubt...

-Once you claim something and you feel secure with it then the next thing is accountability. You are accountable for all your actions towards that thing/person/object...whatever it may be. Without ownership there can be no accountability. It means you have nothing to lose...

-Lastly once something is named in relationships for example it takes away the pain that comes with knowing you are not good enough to make someone proud enough to call you their own...

I could be wrong about all the above and it might be different for everyone. These are just the ramblings of an over-caffeinated woman who can't get any sleep.
Don't overthink it though...it is just a diary.

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