Reputation is what others think of us; character is what God knows of us. When you have spent what feels like eternity trying to repair a few moments of time that destroyed the view others once had of you then you must ask yourself if you have the problem or is it really them? God doesn’t make us try so hard, only enemies do.”
― Shannon L. Alder

What type of reputation do you have? Why do we care what people think of us? In society our young girls want to be liked, popular, pretty and just fit in with their peers but, what price do we have pay to fit in.

As a young girl I wanted to be liked, I came from a broken home, filled with violence, drugs, abuse (to me )and living without more that with.. I use to go to school each week with three outfits, what I wore on Monday, I wore it on Wednesday and what I wore on Tuesday, I wore on Thursday and Friday was an outfit all to itself(smile). I wasn't pretty enough(nobody told me I was) so, I tried to do anything to fit in. I gave my body away to any guy who would tell me I was pretty and I didn't feel pretty but, he aid I was and I had to keep him, I needed him to love me(no father figure in my life) so, I was really looking for a dad in these guys. I ended up having 5 boys by 5 different men. I begin to build a reputation for myself and it wasn't good. They only saw what I was on the outside and didn't understand the emotional pain I endured on the inside. I compromise my character to be loved and to fit in. To all my young girls and woman..You are beautiful..Beauty is skin deep..Beauty does fade. Do not compromise your Booty for your inner Beauty. Know that you are somebody and you are loved.

My Motto: What you say today can help someone make it to tomorrow."

1 Peter 1:14
As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance,